My Face My Choice.

If it is one thing that I can NOT STAND it is when a guy tells me that I should not wear make up because he hates the way girls look with make up. If you hate the way girls look with make up well then that is your problem not mine! I like to wear makeup because it makes me feel pretty and girl like and I also love applying it and finding new ways to apply it and new looks as well. I sometimes spend hours online looking up new products or window shopping on MAC'S website for different eyeshadows. I think guys have this idea that girls who wear make up are not confident or that they are trying to hide something. While yes sometimes that is true it is not always the case with everyone. I am not going to sit here and type away a bunch of lies. I do also wear make up because I like to cover up my flaws. However that is not the MAIN reason i wear it.

I am just really tried of seeing guys (and some girls) posting  up this STUPID picture online.

Ok first off let's get real. I am pretty sure anonymous homeboy in a galaxy far far away made this little meme as a way to get some booty. Let's not kid ourselves here. I mean it's pretty obvious that he wants to be known as that "sensitive caring guy" who is so in tune with his feminine side and genuinely cares about a girls feelings and all of that b.s. Not saying that there is a chance that he can not REALLY feel this way. I mean maybe he does. But  regardless I HATE this picture because it is painting a bad picture of girls who like make up and nice clothes. I am pretty sure that there are TONS of girls who do not wear make up and nice clothes because they are insecure. I am so sick of this bullshit that is being spread online all of the time. It is the same as saying to a guy "Hey guys you don't be insecure! There is no need to buy a nice car or wear nice clothes or taking showers and brushing your teeth! YOU ARE ALL HOT!" I mean really...

So guys let's get this straight. NOT ALL GIRLS WHO WEAR MAKE UP AND DRESS NICE ARE INSECURE! PLEASE STOP THINKING THAT. It's my face, so it's my choice! If I want to wear tons of make up so be it! If i want to buy a 2,000 pair of Alexander Mcqueen so be it! (chya right I wish I had that kind of money). I should not have to look to you for approval on ANYTHING that I do.

There was actually this guy that I was talking to two years ago online. We never met in person (thank god for that) actually but he sure did make a lot of assumptions about me that were things he could totally not tell for sure unless he new me in real life. Basically me and him got along until he starts to call me shallow. I asked him why he thought this of me and the first thing that came out of his mouth was "you wear too much make up, my ex heather used to wear eyeliner when she would go to places like the grocery store and I could not stand it!" He went on to tell me how I am too concerned with makeup and fancy clothes and how he did not like that part of me. The part that liked to be girly. We finally stopped speaking to one another because I could not take his constant criticism. That and uh.. he got back with this ex. Truth is it would not have worked out anyway because I would NEVER be with someone who wants to dictate the way I dress and make myself up. He would always complain about my facebook pictures and how I looked way better when was not wearing any make up (joke was on him because I am ALWAYS wearing make up in my pictures even when it looks like I am not wearing any).

Look the point that I am trying to make here guys is that you should be respectful of a girls choice to wear as little or as much make up as she wants to. You telling us that we are insecure because of the way we dress is NOT being respectful and it certainly does not make us feel good. So please choose your words more wisely and stop making stupid memes!